whatever u select, try not to 'complicate' it. as said before there's so many accessories out there now it will indeed befuddle one.
i would suggest a lower poundage to start with 45-60 or 55-70 in a compound, a simple single pin adjustable sight and a mechanical release.
learning ones form is the critical part of learning the bow. once you're onto your form, the equipment will be easier to select then ... the fun begins ...