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Fabroman, I use to be that way, until I became a grandfather and almost lost my grand daughter twice before her 1 st birthday, once to a traffic accident and once to illness. I don't want her to remember me as a COLD-HEARTED GRANDFATHER, you might think me as a puss, but I'm not afraid to tell someone I love them, a lot of people think if you tell them you love them, the first thout that goes to their mind is sex, there's love and then there's lust, love comes from the heart, lust come from below the belt. When you feel the love of the heart, it doesn't mean your a pervert, I just regret not fully telling my father 17 years ago, when he died from a massive heat attack, or my aunt afew years later who was close to me Hey, I since 1996, have delt with close calls , death , in cancer and then later traffic accident. life is to short to be cold hearted and uncaring, if you truely love someone, let them know, it's not a sign of weakness, but if you don't, that's just plain old fashion stubborness.
I would say if something happen to you, your Dad wouldn't be able to handle it, just simply because he never told you how he really thouught about you, I've seen that many times over the years, and decided if your man enough to have children, then you should be man enough to tell them you love them.
By the way, it sound like the woman that said she was in love with you, simply wasn't from the heart.
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