Wahnie,
I know what you're going through. As a former smoker, I can attest that it's a pain to deal with people who don't have any business telling you what to do with your life. My biggest gripe these days is that we're losing more and more "options" to our duly elected represenatives. We have to wear seatbelts in a car, but it's perfectly legal to ride a motorcycle without a helmet.
makes perfect sense to me... Government by the people, for the people is becoming a thing of the past.
gd