Tooldummy,
I'm with Lilred on this one too. (To use the vernacular) "It ain't the size of their backside, what makes um' rude bastages!"
I'm no string-bean at 6'5" & 285lbs+, and I do take up more than My share of square footage. But I'm aware of this, and do my best to try not to inadvertently Elbow, bend, fold, spindle, step on, or inconvenience by my actions anyone with a smaller "Footprint" than me....or anyone else for that matter.
It comes down to "Common Courtesy", which has become both Uncommon, and discourteous. The whole "I'm Special, my Mommy told me so!"/ "I'm a Victim!, so I can do whatever and it's OK" mindset has been too widely "Fed" to our society that everyone thinks that they are more "Deserving" that everyone else.
You can be "Big"(or anything else) and be courteous. These people just don't want to bother to be. And that is what we are crabbing about....Not their weight issues.
Tall Shadow
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