Tame 35 rem

[ringneck 1]

got me 35rem in 14inch pistoil barrell
two question
I have couple friends that reload
what load do I need to ask about to tame it down
I seen on other forum one time you could order custom reloads
they were a bit pricey thats a direction I could go
any one know of this place I can contact
I dont reload
Its bugger to be old and cofused